We usually usemarryanddivorcewith an object:
Lauren Bacallmarriedher co-star, Humphrey Bogart, in 1945 and made three more movies with him.
He always needed more money, and at 77 hemarrieda wealthy widow, but shedivorcedhima year later.
However, in formal styles we use them without an object:
The couplemarriedthree years ago and have a daughter, Molly.
In informal language we useget marriedandget divorcedwhen there is no object:
Paul and Katiaare getting marriedin New Zealand.
She finallygot divorcedlast year.
We usebe marriedandbe divorcedto describe the state of being married or divorced:
They’re divorcednow.
We’vebeen marriedfor 50 years.
We don’t usetoorwithaftermarry:
Shemarriedsomeone she met at college.
Not:She married to someone… orShe married with someone…
We useto, notwith, afterget married+ direct object andbe married+ direct object:
Shegot married tosomeone she met at college.
She’s married tosomeone she met at college.
Not:She got married with someone… orShe’s married with someone…
We usefromwithget divorcedand (less commonly) withbe divorced:
Shegot divorced fromher second husband.
Sheis divorced fromher second husband.
Shedivorcedher second husband.